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People may not appreciate what you do or say when you are kind and honest. And many people may not like it when you find happiness. But you need to be true to yourself and not let anyone else bring you down.

People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.

If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.

For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

~ Mother Teresa

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What we learn as we get older is that life doesn’t always go as we plan. We need to learn to control what we can and not worry about what we can’t. Life is going to throw us lemons so let’s make lemonade.

At my age, I’ve learned that most of what we worry about never happens, and most of what does happen we never saw coming. So here’s my advice: prepare for what you can, accept what you can’t, and spend more time living than worrying. The graveyards are full of people who died with perfect plans but unlived lives. Don’t be one of them.

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I saw this quote the other day on Facebook, and it hit home for me. I was just thinking now that I am 50, I have probably lived over half of my life. I doubt I will make it to 100 so I need to cherish the time I have left by living life to the fullest. I also need to evaluate what things make my life better and get rid of the things that don’t.

One day you realize you’ve probably lived more years than you have left…and suddenly you stop tolerating things that waste your life.

~ unknown

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Let’s try to stay present in each moment. Enjoy where we are in life. Too many times, we are rushing or striving for the next greatest thing instead of just enjoying where we are and how far we’ve come.

You’re constantly worrying about the next part of your life without realizing that you’re right in the middle of what you used to look forward to.

~ Power of Positivity

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A lot of times, we need to realize that when someone lashes out at you, the problem is really about something that is going on inside of them. They may be having a bad day, and instead of pausing and trying to turn their day around, they take their frustrations out on other people.  Maturity is realizing that and not lashing back and not taking it personally.

Maturity is realizing most things aren’t about you. The bad driver is having their own day. The short email has nothing to do with your worth. The friend who didn’t call back is fighting their own battles. Taking things less personally is a skill that creates space for peace.

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Scary but true. This is a little reminder of how quickly life can change. We can be going along in our daily routine when Pow! There it is. The Thing that takes your breath away. It could be a phone call, an accident, or a close call. Whatever it is, don’t wait for your wake-up call. Live your life for you now.

Just a reminder that we’re all just one accident, one diagnosis, one phone call away from a life that doesn’t look anything like the one we’re living right now.

That’s the quiet truth we forget in our rush-how fragile everything really is.

We live as if the plans we’ve made are promises. We wake, we move through our routines, we speak to the people we love as if we’ll always have another chance.

But life doesn’t work like that. Nothing is owed to us. Nothing is permanent.

That’s why love can’t wait. Say the words you’ve been holding back. Take the leap that terrifies you. Hold the people who make your world brighter and show and let them know that they matter.

Because the clock doesn’t warn us when it’s running out. And sometimes, the wake-up call never comes until it is too late.

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What a beautiful quote. We just had Valentine’s Day, which can be extremely emotional for people. Some people may feel sad because they don’t have a significant other to share the day with. But let’s remember Valentine’s Day shouldn’t just be about romantic relationships. It should be a day to express love to your family and friends. Let someone you love know how you feel. Let them know how much you appreciate them and all they do for you. Remember, in all the world, we only have one life to live so celebrate it!

In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.

– Maya Angelou

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I saw this on Facebook the other day. Practice the pause. What good advice. Hard to practice, but possibly something to be more mindful of. According to this article, it only takes 90 seconds for your brain to process emotions. If you are stuck in a state such as anger or sadness, it is because you are processing that emotion over and over in your head; therefore, you get stuck. If we can recognize our feelings of anger, sadness, or resentment, we can pause, feel it, and then let it go. We don’t need to be stuck in a state because of our own minds. So practice the pause.

Practice the Pause. Pause before you assume. Pause before you accuse. Pause before you react out of emotion. That Pause can save you a lot of regret.

~ unknown

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Over the past few years, I have seen many friendships change. And I have come to realize that life is busy. We are all busy. We all have too much to do and too many places to go. But what I do know if you have true friendship, you are never too busy. There are always five seconds in a day to say hello, even if you haven’t talked to them in three months. If you want to continue the relationship, you make the effort. And if it is true friendship that it will stand the test of time and months of not talking but when someone reaches out or when you get together, it’s like no time has passed at all.

Life is already hard. And I don’t want to be around people who make it even harder. I need people who feel like home, who bring comfort, calm, and a sense of peace. That’s the kind of energy I need in my life.

~ Robert Wilkinson

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