Let’s try to stay present in each moment. Enjoy where we are in life. Too many times, we are rushing or striving for the next greatest thing instead of just enjoying where we are and how far we’ve come.
You’re constantly worrying about the next part of your life without realizing that you’re right in the middle of what you used to look forward to.
~ Power of Positivity
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When I first started this blog, I was posting an inspirational quote every day, as well as a Tuesday post, a Wednesday workout, and a Friday Fixin’ recipe. It gave me an outlet when my hubby was working and Gram and I were sitting around the house. When Sweet Gram passed away in February of 2021, life became very busy, and I found I was Never Home. It soon became too much; therefore, I dropped down to two posts a month and once a week, Weekly Wednesday Words for inspiration. Decisions have never been easy for me, but starting this blog was one of the best decisions I ever made.
This past year, I have found that I am lucky to write once a month, and I started wondering if I should quit the blog. Time just slips away from me. When I am home, sometimes I don’t want to do anything but lie on the couch and watch a mindless TV show. And when we are traveling, I try to be present in the moment instead of being on the computer. Anyway, I thank my loyal readers who have subscribed or clicked on the social media link when I post. I really appreciate it when you send texts or emails to let me know you enjoyed reading a story. Thank you!
It’s been five and a half years since I started this blog, Inspired And Strong, and I love it. I love writing, and I hope that some of my stories have inspired you to go on new adventures, have encouraged you to start a new chapter in your life, or have motivated you to make the world a better place by holding the door open for someone or putting your shopping cart back. Whatever this blog means to you, I do hope you enjoy it.
Recently, I have been contemplating life’s decisions. I know sometimes people have a difficult time when they retire because they end up losing their purpose in life and aren’t sure what to do. I have been “retired” from the field of education for almost 11 years now. I have done remote work for my school system, got my travel agent and real estate licenses, worked in an ice cream shop, and was a receptionist at a chiropractor’s office. Although I enjoyed all of those jobs, nothing has stuck as a career path. I love doing this blog, but it’s not a moneymaker. And I don’t need money to make it worthwhile but I get frustrated because I would love to be a better travel agent or real estate agent, but seems education is the only career in which I feel confident.
I was trained in education and had 16 years of experience. With all of the other careers I have started, I don’t feel like I have a firm foundation. I don’t feel like anyone has taken me under their wing to jumpstart my career. I am at a loss on which career path to follow.
When I had Sweet Gram, I had a purpose and enjoyed caring for her. Since she passed, I don’t know exactly what my purpose is. I enjoy being a Pilot’s Wife and am grateful for all of the experiences I have had. I can’t have a “normal” job because I have FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) and definitely don’t want to miss out on the next big adventure! But I also want to feel like I am making a difference on this Earth. Hence, my dificulty with decisions!
I enjoy writing, and maybe I should concentrate on writing my book like Jake the Medium said. Or maybe I should get my real estate license again and try to sell houses. Or maybe I quit trying to force it and enjoy the journey.
In the end, one decision I did make was that I am not quite ready to give up my blog. My posts may be few and far between, but I hope you will subscribe and read them when they do arrive in your inbox. I hope they continue to inspire you. I also hope you will go back and read the daily inspirations if you’re having a down day.
Life can be hard. Decisions are hard. But somehow we all end up exactly where we are supposed to be. So let’s try to enjoy the ride.
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A lot of times, we need to realize that when someone lashes out at you, the problem is really about something that is going on inside of them. They may be having a bad day, and instead of pausing and trying to turn their day around, they take their frustrations out on other people. Maturity is realizing that and not lashing back and not taking it personally.
Maturity is realizing most things aren’t about you. The bad driver is having their own day. The short email has nothing to do with your worth. The friend who didn’t call back is fighting their own battles. Taking things less personally is a skill that creates space for peace.
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Scary but true. This is a little reminder of how quickly life can change. We can be going along in our daily routine when Pow! There it is. The Thing that takes your breath away. It could be a phone call, an accident, or a close call. Whatever it is, don’t wait for your wake-up call. Live your life for you now.
Just a reminder that we’re all just one accident, one diagnosis, one phone call away from a life that doesn’t look anything like the one we’re living right now.
That’s the quiet truth we forget in our rush-how fragile everything really is.
We live as if the plans we’ve made are promises. We wake, we move through our routines, we speak to the people we love as if we’ll always have another chance.
But life doesn’t work like that. Nothing is owed to us. Nothing is permanent.
That’s why love can’t wait. Say the words you’ve been holding back. Take the leap that terrifies you. Hold the people who make your world brighter and show and let them know that they matter.
Because the clock doesn’t warn us when it’s running out. And sometimes, the wake-up call never comes until it is too late.
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Well, today is my birthday. This is 50. It’s hard to believe I am half a century old. How did this happen?? I remember when 50 was so old! And now here I am…adolescent old age, the youngest of the old people, old people Freshman class! (Check out the IG link). But I guess it’s better than the alternative! 50 is daunting because most likely you have lived more than half of your life, which can be sad.
Last year, I read a post by SARK about recognizing birthdays as levels because it is a blessing to be getting older and achieving another day, another year, another level. Therefore, today I am going up to Level 5.0, and I am going to be grateful for it. I am going to be grateful for having spent a week with my family coming out to Utah to see me. I am going to be grateful for friends who made the trip. I am going to be grateful to live in this beautiful world in which we live. So here I am, and this is 50.
I am extremely grateful for the life I have. Even though there have been many losses that have left a few big holes in my heart, I am thankful for the support, the amazing people in my life, and the opportunities that have been presented to me. I wouldn’t trade all the relationships that didn’t work out, all the jobs that sent me down different roads, or all of the choices that led me to where I am today. You are never too old to take a leap of faith. Quitting my career at 39 years old and moving to Thailand was the best decision I ever made!
This is 50, and my bucket list continues. My goal was to get to all 50 states by 50, but I missed it by one, Oregon. I was supposed to go last November, but My Prince’s work trip got changed, and that opportunity was missed. Hopefully, I can get there this summer. I have been to the Minneapolis airport, and that’s my “official visit” so far, but I would like to see more of Minnesota. And there are many states I would like to go back to.
In my fifty years, I am gaining on my goals of getting to all seven continents and as many countries as possible. I never thought I would be a skier, but now I have 29 different ski resorts under my belt on the continents of North America, Europe, and Asia. I have also been to 25 countries, which isn’t too shabby for a small town girl.
So this is 50. There are more lines on my face. There is more gray in my hair. It’s harder to lose weight. There are curves where there weren’t. I am trying to embrace these changes that come with aging. I am trying to appreciate all that I have in this life. I try to create memories instead of collecting stuff (although I do like to buy souvenirs). I try to see the positive of a situation instead of looking at the negative (which isn’t always easy). But life on this planet is short, and we need to live life to the fullest.
I hope that whatever level you are at, you are taking advantage of the opportunities on this Earth. There is so much to see and do, and you never know when your time to go to Heaven will be.