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A few months ago, My Prince had a three-day layover in England. He asked if I wanted to come over. Of course, I am a Yes, Woman so I said yes and made my way from Cleveland to London. Then I had to make my way to Cambridge via the train which was harder than I thought. I was so glad people there spoke English but with their heavy British accents it was hard to understand!

My flight landed before he did, so I had a few hours to work out, relax, and freshen up. When he and his crew arrived, we headed out to see a bit of the town and have a drink at the Eagle Bar, an aviation bar for the Royal Air Force. We found a table even though it was pretty crowded with the college “kids.”

Eagle Bar

We found out soon enough that Cambridge (although a college town) was not a party town. The bars and restaurants closed early. We were kicked out around midnight and had to find a bite to eat as the guys were starving after their flight.

We found a delicious Mediterranean place called Gardenia and got a kabob. Along the way, we passed the Corpus Clock, which is a cricket that keeps time by clicking. So pretty. We went back to the hotel to eat and have another beverage. The hotel, called “Hotel Graduate” is one of the cutest hotels I have stayed in. It had a nice bar and a lounging area with a fireplace where guests could hang out. If you are in the Cambridge area you need to check it out.

corpus clock

The next day My Valentine and I took the train to London. We had tickets to Buckingham Palace and wanted to see all the touristy sights. We walked around without much direction but stumbled upon the places we were supposed to see including Big Ben, Parliament, Hyde Park, the Borough Market, and Dishoom, an amazing Indian place for dinner.

buckingham palace

Outside our hotel was a boat that was turned into a bar called Tamesis Dock, which was really fun. They had live music so we had a drink and listened for a bit. That night Ohio State was playing so we had to get back to the hotel to watch the game. It was a late night game in the United States and even later in London. Needless to say, I fell asleep about halftime.

us on the boat bar

The next day, we walked and walked. Our goal was to find a good brunch place and the London Bridge. We did both. After a few pics of the bridge and the infamous telephone booths, we meandered back towards the hotel hitting a few stops on the way.

me and the telephone booth

By the time we got back to Cambridge, it was dark. The English delicacy of fish and chips was not appealing to us so we decided on Thai for dinner. We then hit a few local pubs, including The Pickerel Inn (debated as one of the oldest pubs in Cambridge 1608), and called it a night.

us at cambridge pub

The next day I was on the train back to London to catch my flight to the United States. I flew standby and there was a long list of standby passengers. Many of them had been bumped the day before. I didn’t think I was going to make it but somehow, they called my name and I was on! Thank God. I didn’t want to spend the night at the airport in London by myself.

I love exploring different countries and cultures. I love that we can go to other countries and not have to rent a car; we can take a train and get anywhere we need to be. I also love how clean the trains and cities are.
We had a wonderful time in England. It is very pretty, and I love the old architecture. Walking by the river was amazing and all the bridges were beautiful. I definitely would like to go back and explore more.

Stay Strong & Be Inspired, Stacy

I hope you are blessed with many gatherings of friends and family this holiday season. Any holiday is a good excuse to bring family together and be grateful for what we have. If you are celebrating today I want to wish you a Merry Christmas. I wish you all a wonderful holiday season and the happiest new year!

“Holidays–any holiday–are such a great opportunity to focus on bringing the family together.”

–Lidia Bastianich

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Christmas Eve is when My Rock and I celebrate with my family. It has been a tradition since I was little to celebrate the Polish tradition of Wigilia on Christmas Eve. We always helped Gram, Our Matriarch make pierogies the day before. Then they would chill in the garage because it was always cold enough in northwest Pennsylvania to leave them there. Traditionally, we would make potato and sauerkraut, mushroom, and cottage cheese.  Eventually, we started cheating a bit and added in cheddar cheese and bacon pierogies, even though you are not supposed to eat meat on Christmas Eve.

Our Wigilia dinner is supposed to have 12 dishes to symbolize the 12 apostles although I don’t remember eating 12 things. We always had cream of mushroom soup, haddock, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, corn, green bean casserole, and pie for dessert. But my memory may be fading so those dishes may have been on Christmas Day as well! We all loved Red Lobster, so at some point we added in shrimp scampi and even lobster tails for a few years.

Before we eat we go around to each person breaking the opłatek, which is a Christmas wafer to symbolize the gift of daily bread. We wish everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Wikipedia also states “there is in places a belief that whatever happens on Wigilia affects the incoming year; if a quarrel should arise, it foretells a quarrelsome and troublesome year.” Let’s hope that everyone has a peaceful day and no quarrels arise.

I always remember on Christmas morning my sister and I would wake up super early and head downstairs, wide-eyed to see the beautiful tree and all the gifts from Santa. I love waking up to Christmas tree lights. It’s my absolute favorite. We couldn’t open gifts until Gram and Gramps got there, which usually didn’t take long as they were only two blocks away.

After our gifts, we would get dressed and head up to my grandparents. We would eat the traditional Polish breakfast of kielbasa and eggs. Then we would finally get to open gifts at Gram’s.

As I am sure most kids did, we played with toys, tried on new clothes, and celebrated with family.  But we also went up to the Alliance College gym and jumped on the trampoline or played basketball. I was obsessed when I was little.

Since 2012 most of our Christmases have been in Virginia. My sister had given birth to my niece and I lived there as well. Dad had passed, therefore mom would drive my grandparents down to Virginia. After Christmas, they would continue to Fort Myers to Gram’s Condo.

Although we continue to celebrate in Virginia with the kids, life has changed. We no longer have my grandparents or my sister but we have a bonus family of my brother-in-law’s girlfriend and her three children. We celebrate Wigilia at my mom’s and then head to church. We finally get to open presents on Christmas Eve (which I always wanted to do!).

Whatever your holiday traditions are I hope you have a wonderful Christmas Eve and a Merry Christmas! I hope Santa is good to you this year.

Stay Strong & Be Inspired, Stacy

I saw this on social media the other day. I believe it is one hundred percent accurate. Many of us what for things to happen to be happy. We wait for the right time, the right place, or the right people. But what we need to learn is happiness depends on us. We are in control of our lives and our happiness. Let’s make it happen.

If you want to be happy, have zero expectations of others, take 100% responsibility for your life, and be grateful for what you have.

-unknown

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Today would have been my grandpa’s 99th birthday. It’s hard to believe he’s been gone eight years now. He lived a wonderful life of 90 years. He was a teacher, a coach, and a mentor. He coached golf, baseball, and basketball. He was the coach and athletic director for Alliance College, which was a small Polish college in Cambridge Springs, PA. He also coached many of my friends and me in middle school basketball and helped with our high school softball team.

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Not only was my grandpa the patriarch of our family, he was a father figure to many of the players he coached. He had a coaching style similar to that of Bobby Knight of Indiana. He was all business. He had high expectations of all of his players. He expected us to perform well on and off the court. He pushed us to be the best players and students we could be. He. also expected us to follow the rules.

My Heart and I still keep in touch with some of his old players and since we live in the house where he and Sweet Gram lived for about 50 years, we get visitors from time to time. We love hearing stories of Grandpa. A lot of his players talk about how he was a huge influence on their lives. They talk about how Grandpa and Gram would invite them to dinner if they couldn’t go home for the holidays. They talk about how my grandparents encouraged them to stay in school and work hard on the court and in their academics. Some talk about how they saved their lives in one form or another.

I looked up to my grandparents as a child which turned into a deep respect as I grew into an adult. Maybe some of his techniques would be frowned upon today but he made a difference. I am lucky that I lived two blocks from my grandparents as a child and lived with Gram for five years as an adult. I believe everyone who knew them feels blessed to have been a part of their lives.

gram and gramps

Happy Birthday, Grandpa! We love and miss you!

Stay Strong & Be Inspired, Stacy

 

I believe we can all relate to this quote. We don’t need to be perfect. We shouldn’t even strive for perfection. But let’s realize that we are human. We make mistakes. Let’s learn from them and strive to be an excellent human being.

“Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.”

Tony Robbins

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Sometimes we forget our veterans’ bravery and sacrifice so that we may live free. Today, I hope you thank someone who put their life on the line for your freedom. I hope everyone feels a sense of honor and pride today for those who sacrificed so much for us.

“On this Veteran’s Day, let us remember the service of our veterans, and let us renew our national promise to fulfill our sacred obligations to our veterans and their families who have sacrificed so much so that we can live free.”

—Dan Lipinski

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Stay Strong & Be Inspired, Stacy