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As you read in “Eat Better and Move Better“, we try to maintain a healthy lifestyle by eating whole foods and working out. We try to stick to it about 90% of the time. Yes, we still drink alcohol. Yes, we still go out to eat. Yes, we still have high energy carbs outside of our “window”. But most of the time, we try to be mindful of how and what we are eating. We have found that we can easily sub this item for that item, and we eat foods that are lower in calories and higher in nutritional value.

I wanted to do a post to explain a few things you can do in your kitchen to help yourself if you want to start a nutrition journey. These simple replacements are better for you and will save you some calories. So try to sub this for that and see how you feel!

It may take some time to get used to the new products, but once your palate is used to it, you won’t even notice the difference.

Please note, I am not a nutritionist. These are some things we have learned over the years that work for us so I wanted to share our knowledge.

  1. If it’s in the house, you are going to eat it.
  2. Moderation is key.
  3. You can still eat relatively healthy when you go out to eat (if you make good choices)
  4. Bad food decisions are usually made when you are drinking 🙂
  5. Food prepping helps tremendously.

First of all, you should go through your pantry and refrigerator and get rid of any food that may tempt you -aka that delicious bag of potato chips 🙂 Then plan out your meals for the week for each day. Six small meals a day is ideal. Make your grocery list. Shop and meal prep! If you don’t buy bad foods then you cannot eat bad foods.  It all starts at the grocery store. Stay on the outskirts of the store where the fresh food is. Below are a few simple substitutions you can make.

SUBSTITUTIONS

Sub this…… for that

  • liquid protein flavors for coffee cream/sugar or creamer (We like Quest Salted Caramel or Vanilla) (Premier Protein has some amazing flavors as well)
  • avocado oil butter for butter
  • unsalted grass-fed stick butter for salted margarine (Cabot)
  • unsweetened almond, coconut, or cashew milk for cow milk
  • Quest protein bars for other snack bars
  • coconut sugar for white sugar and sugar substitutes such as Sweet and Low
  • coconut or almond flour for white flour
  •  all-natural peanut, almond, or cashew butter for peanut butter
  • cage-free, organic brown eggs for eggs (if you can get them straight from a farm or chicken even better)
  • whole wheat instead of white bread
  • Ezekiel muffins/bread is even better (made with sprouted wheat)
  • water, tea, coffee, green tea instead of soda/pop/Coke
  • extra virgin olive oil or coconut oil for butter or margarine for cooking
  • dressings made with olive or avocado oil instead of creamy salad dressings (use sparingly)
  • homemade balsamic even better
  • avocado oil mayonnaise instead of Miracle Whip or mayo
  • Bragg’s liquid aminos for soy sauce
  • cauliflower rice for rice
  • quinoa for rice or noodles
  • protein, veggie, or edamame noodles for white noodles
  • vegan cheese for cheese or make your own cheese
  • homemade Vegan Cheddar Cheese
  • homemade Mozzarella
  • low-fat cottage cheese for regular cottage cheese (2-4%)
  • plain non-fat Greek yogurt (sweeten with honey and a flavored protein powder) for flavored yogurt
  • cage-free egg whites for eggs beaters
  • plant-based wraps or wheat wraps for flour tortillas
  • mashed cauliflower for mashed potatoes
  • sweet potatoes for white potatoes
  • dark chocolate (70% cacao or higher) for milk chocolate (a small piece a day is okay)
  • kettle-cooked potato chips for chips if you just can’t resist
  • do not buy and please throw away any products with high fructose corn syrup in them, here’s why

I hope this helps. There is always a good, better, or best option. For example, fries are an option. Choosing sweet potato fries would be better. Subbing a side salad or a vegetable such as broccoli is best. So try to sub this for that and see how it goes. Let us know if you have found any other substitutes that you enjoy.

Some people may not like mushrooms but if you do, give these portabella stuffed mushrooms a try! I wasn’t exactly sure what to stuff them with, but they turned out delicious! This site has a ton of ideas that look amazing!

Ingredients

  • 3 portabella mushrooms
  • 1/2 medium sweet onion diced
  • a serving of tofu cut into cubes
  • sprinkle with vegan cheese
  • half an avocado
  • sliced tomatoes
  • 1-2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar

Stacy’s Suggestions and Preparation

  1. Put olive oil and vinegar in a bowl.
  2. Dip portabellas into the mixture and flip over.
  3. Put mushrooms in the frying pan. Cook on medium heat.
  4. Flip after 5 minutes or so and keep flipping until soft.
  5. Cut up onion, tofu, and vegan cheese into bite-sized pieces.
  6. Spray another pan with olive oil spray.
  7. Pay fry tofu and onions. Add in cheese towards the end.
  8. Slice tomatoes and avocado.
  9. Put tomato and avocado on the side of your plate. You can add a piece of lettuce if you like.
  10. Put mushroom upside down on a plate.
  11. Fill mushroom with the filling of tofu, onions, and cheese.
  12. Cut it up, mix it all together and enjoy!!

In this workout, you will do three movements: squats, lunges, and hand-release push-ups. Do a quick warm-up, then complete the following sets. Take breaks as needed. Make this workout work for you.

  • 8 squats       4 lunges      2 hand-release push-ups
  • 16 squats     8 lunges      4 hand-release push-ups
  • 24 squats     12 lunges    6 hand-release push-ups
  • 32 squats     16 lunges    8 hand-release push-ups
  • 40 squats     20 lunges   10 hand-release push-ups
  • 48 squats     24 lunges    12 hand-release push-ups

To make it more challenging, add weight to the squats and lunges. You can also go back down the ladder for more work. To modify the workout, you can stop after three rounds or do plank taps for the hand-release push-ups. Email me if you need more suggestions.

While Gram has been limited in what she can do and how fast she can go, she has usually been up for an adventure. She goes where we go.  When we do something fun or go on an adventure, people always ask, “what did you do with Gram?” We can’t leave her home alone so we take her almost everywhere we go.  Our friends know when we come to visit, it’s me, my husband, Gram, and even sometimes the cat.

As you read in “How Did I Get Here“, I have been taking care of Gram for almost five years. In that time, Gram has probably flown on more planes and been on more adventures than she had the previous 91 years of her life. And for that, I am thankful and blessed. Gram goes where we go, and I am sure we probably wear her out, but she just keeps ticking like the Energizer bunny. So strong and inspiring.gram, stacy and jeff in Co

gram in beach chair in ObXAlthough we know we need a “Break from Gram“, we also know if she goes where we go, she will enjoy it. We all will. Sometimes she takes more coaxing to start the adventure, but almost every time she says thank you and has a huge smile on her face at the end. Since 2016, she has hiked Cooper’s Rock, done shot ski’s in Copper Mountain, sat on the beach in the Outer Banks and Virginia Beach, been on our boat for over 140 hours, sat in between us on the golf cart, and spent hours in the car driving back and forth from Florida to Pennsylvania.  Whether our adventures are up and down the East Coast or just a jaunt in the car to the nearest ice cream shop she always seems to have a good time.

Then it happened. This summer, Gram got weaker. It all seemed to have started with a sore on her ankle. Then her right leg was numb so she was getting up several times a night trying to “walk it off.” I was so tired and frustrated. Getting up to walk around on a numb leg just isn’t a good idea. It was then that I started doubting my abilities as a caregiver. Could I continue doing it and keep her safe?

She became more and more wobbly and unsteady. One morning she fell and hit her head. We ended up having to take her to Med Express for stitches. By the time we got there, she didn’t even remember she had fallen.

gram and stacy at steelers game

About a month later, we had five days of respite care (through Hospice), and although we wanted her to go where we went, we also wanted a few days away. Well, when we picked her up 4 days later, she still had the same socks on she went in with. They had her in a hospital gown instead of the clothes I sent with her. Her food was to the side of her bed and completely untouched. She wasn’t up,  dressed, packed, or even close to being ready to go home. I was there 30 minutes getting her out of bed, to the restroom, washed up, and into her clothes. Not one person came by. Next, I realized her toothbrush was still in the wrapper. I was LIVID, to say the least.

After that, gram got weaker still. She started having trouble walking even short distances. She started using a walker. Because she had been in the bed for so long, we had to make her walk short distances to try to gain some strength back.

Towards the end of summer, her congestive heart failure started filling her with fluid. She was having a very hard time breathing, and we were scared she wasn’t going to make it. She was so weak, and we were worried we were going to lose her. Hospice was wonderful again, got her some medications, and Gram, the superwoman that she is, nursed her way back to health.

gram and stacy getting ice cream

Gram definitely isn’t as strong as she once was and it definitely is getting harder on us as caregivers. She is slower, she is more forgetful, she is weaker, and she is even having trouble standing up. We are so blessed to have had all these wonderful years with Gram, but caregiving is getting harder and harder. She still goes where we go, but it takes a lot more effort and takes a lot more time. She gets worn out more quickly. She needs a wheelchair more often than not. She doesn’t want to go as much anymore either. And we realize it is hard for her and on her body. Sometimes we wonder if we are pushing too hard or expecting too much.

Over the past two months, I have realized that Gram doesn’t really want to get out of bed anymore. Even when we were visiting her daughter and great-grandchildren, she would say “just leave me in bed.” It hit me that she didn’t realize that she was missing time with the kids or her own daughter. Even though she asks about my mom and the kids all the time, she showed little effort in wanting to spend time with them and that made me so sad. I know in her heart she wants to be a part of it all, but in her dementia brain, she could care less.

gram stacy and jeff at dinner

This realization made us start seriously thinking about getting extra help with Gram. We found a lady who seemed perfect and jumped right in helping Gram, but three days later she quit saying the job was more difficult than she had anticipated. This made us realize that it was time to consider a memory care facility. We do not want to do this by any means, but we can’t take the chance that a caregiver is going to quit on us again, forcing us, and Gram to start over again with another new face in the house . We are also wondering if Gram just wants to sit and do nothing. Does she try so hard to keep moving because she doesn’t want to disappoint us or let us down?

stacy, gram and jeff golfing

Although I can’t imagine taking her to a facility and dropping her off, we are not confident that we can keep her safe at home. We are so torn. I have been crying on and off for two weeks now. I took her to get her hair done and she could barely make it to the door. We took her to the store, and she could barely get in the car. We took her to sit out by the pool and she tried to get up by herself and fell. We cannot keep our eyes on our 24/7, and we just don’t know what to do. We also know Gram has lived an amazing life, and we want to live ours, too. Does Gram just want to sit in a chair all day? Does she just want to dream of her lost loved ones? Are we pushing her too hard to push herself? We understand that this may be one of the hardest decisions we have to make, and we really don’t want to make. We are scared and nervous and worried about how she will adjust. We are scared, nervous, and worried about how we will adjust. But it appears “life changes” are on our doorstep.

Has anyone had to make this type of decision? What did you do? How did you decide?

Stay Strong & Be Inspired, Stacy